When a cheater tell you that they never meant to hurt you, what they are actually saying is …….. I wish you never found out because I damn well knew, it was going to hurt!

With no thought of how one’s actions may affect the heart of another, the sometimes slick actions of a cheater can be devastating. The mind of a cheater is of their own, therefore, there is nothing you can do to stop a cheater from cheating. You may think that the more you are there for them, the less of a chance they will cheat but if someone has it in their mind to cheat there is nothing you can say or do to stop them because their mind is of their own. The need to cheat is within all of us, however, how we react to that need is what really matters because everyone likes to feel desired, even if it’s from someone we are not initially attracted to. I have heard men say, the reason they cheat is that it’s in their nature to be with more than one women at a time. However, is it really in a man’s nature to feel less like a man if they don’t sleep with as many women as possible or is it just an excuse?