Love yourself even through the pain of a cheating lover. It is sometimes hard to remember that you even exist when you’re all caught up in a relationship. It’s new and your main focus is to try to figure out how to make it work between you and this person that has captured your heart. Like a lot of relationships they start off with an undyingly need to be with this person, their touch weaken you and while you pull out all the bells and whistles to impress them you forget about you. You find yourself doing things that you normally wouldn’t do to cater to their needs. Months, sometimes years go by before you even realize the damage you have allowed this person to cause. During your relationship you see all the sign but when you look into their eyes, you only see the good times and how their touch makes you feel. Your love for them consumes you and when things start to change, you wonder what you did wrong, you desperately want to make it right again not realizing it was only right for you. They may have made it real every time you were together but the moments you spent were only priceless in your eyes. While you continue to poison yourself with the need for this person, you’re not the only one, they’re sleeping. As time goes by you realize that when it comes to them there are more red flags in a day than there are hours but their poison is your drug of choice and your need for them is real, however you now know it’s time to let go.